Couples nowadays:
“It’s too hard. We didn’t align and want a divorce. I can’t take it anymore.”
Meanwhile, my husband and I:
• Homeless
• In the ICU
• Lost a child
• Lost our parents
• Working 4 dead-end jobs
• Dealt with serious financial struggles
• building a home by ourselves while living in a construction site…
Still in-love
Still blessed
Still grateful
Because it times like these that remind you how blessed you truly are, when having each other, is true wealth.
One of the many reasons why marriage is a bad deal for men in the modern age.
Millions of men are in sexless marriages, and a huge percentage of women think that wives don’t owe their husbands sex.
Then, if a man wants a divorce because his wife won’t sleep with him, she gets half his assets plus alimony. Women are literally incentivized to behave poorly in marriage.
This is why 70% of divorces are initiated by women. If they divorce, the woman gets cash and prizes while the man gets absolutely fucked (maybe for the first time in ages).
Insanity.
I've never understood the appeal of "cooking and cleaning" when a woman is selling herself for long-term commitment.
Those are low-level grunt work that I can:
1. Easily outsource on the cheap
2. Outsource by the hour (meaning the maid is gone when I DON'T want her around)... so important
3. If push comes to shove, DO THEM MYSELF
You do some basic household chores for me, therefore you deserve half my money, half of my life's work?
Get the fuck outta here and scam somebody else.
It doesn’t matter what I’m doing:
cooking,
cleaning,
taking care of the kids,
on calls with clients,
or writing contracts.
If my husband comes over and needs me,
I stop everything to take care of him.
Those chores will still be there tomorrow.
Your husband might not.
Nothing is more important than your marriage.
And no, it’s not because he’s “needy” or “impatient.”
Those are just excuses for not taking your role as a wife seriously.
There are really only two ways to know for sure how a girl feels about you:
1. She’s sleeping with you
2. She’s spending money on you
Honestly the second one tells you more than the first one.
Things men need from their wives but shouldn’t have to ask for them:
• Initiating intimacy • Building him up in public and in private • Random physical displays of affection • Saying “thank you and I trust you” • Choosing him over attention from others
Wives who master these without him having to ask for it, have husbands who can’t wait to go home.
Have you heard of “text foreplay”?
It’s the ability to make a girl dripping wet through text - very useful to do before a date to ensure things move quickly when you meet…
And make the friendzone an impossibility.
Here are 5 tips to master texting foreplay:
Most women don’t realize how their words can impact their man.
After sex say…
“Babe, I think you gave me the best orgasm I’ve ever had.”
After a workout say…
“Honey, your arms are getting huge! I love it!!”
At the end of the day say…
“Our son looks the most happy when he’s spending time with you.”
Be honest, but don’t hold back.
He’ll hold onto these statements for years to come.
Jada Pinkett Smith says no matter how hard Will Smith tried to make her happy it didn’t work, adding she later realized it wasn’t his responsibility, which led her to seek happiness in other people while still married, claiming it helped her heal 😳🤔