Please raise your daughters to have hobbies, interests, and academics...so when they become adults and middle-aged women they have something to talk about besides a man.
I’m single, but it’s deeper than that. Someone messed up my idea of love so badly that I haven’t felt genuinely romantically interested in anyone since. It’s not that I don’t want love. I just don’t look at people the same anymore. It’s not the breakup that changes you. It’s what the relationship teaches you about love that makes you stop wanting it altogether.
Unfortunately I feel like Im gonna be one of those women who focused on their career so much they end up alone with no man. Oh well at-least I’ll be rich.
girl to girl: please don’t let adulthood take away your ability to be excited. scream over the concert tickets. get excited about your new dress. send your girls 40 pictures from the dressing room. be silly. life needs more of that.
Nobody can ever gaslight me into thinking i’m a bad person. I have my ways & i have my days but i’m solid and my love is real & genuine every step of the way.
I don't judge nobody, because I know what it's like to thug it out in silence. To wake up drained but still handle your business. To feel alone around people who swear they love you. To go ghost instead of venting, people used what you told them before against you. To keep everything bottled up and still move like everything is good. I've been through things I don't even speak on... but I keep going like I ain't been through nothing😌
I'm a lover girl, I love intimacy. I love romance. I love cute notes. I love quality time. I love giving presents. I love romantic gestures. I love small and thoughtful gifts. I love date nights. I love long, deep conversations. I love being silly together. I love hugs, holding hands. I love making memories. I love feeling secure. I love acts of service. I love reciprocating. I love love.
girls.... pleaseeeee pick the gentle one. the kind one. the one who brings you peace. the protective one. the one who is sure of you. the one who respects you. the one who understands your silence.
the sexiest thing a man can do is learn you. not just love you, but understand you,know how to show up for you, recognize your silence, remember the little things, and make you feel seen. It's never about grand gestures; it's about being intentional in the ways that matter most
one of the main reasons i’m so gentle with myself is cause i believe i’ve already experienced enough hardship in my life. i’ve already been mishandled and undervalued by others and myself at times. so i deserve more patience, forgiveness, and consideration at this point.