Hausa women will get together and talk about the horrors of being married and then turn to you and ask “so when are you thinking about getting married?
Don’t. Recruit. Me.
This thing where the groom sings to the bride during the wedding…whoever came up with it, it won’t be happening at my wedding. Please don’t embarrass both of us. It’s so cringe to me.
at this big age when people show signs of hidden animosity or weird energy, just remove yourself. don’t try to understand them or try to make it make sense.
Please be mindful of how you speak about those who have returned to Allah. They have left this world with their deeds, and now they need our du’a more than our criticism. If you can’t say something good, remain silent and pray for them.
Allahumma ighfir lahum warhamhum. Ameen.