it's so weird how boys are like "being a girl is so easy men pay for things! female privilege!" as if so many men don't see spending money on us as buying access to our bodies ... ya nothing like the privilege of ppl constantly wanting to assault u ... rlly feels great and fun
and to be clear i’m not excusing it. the point is that men cannot reconcile that coercion is rape because misogyny tells them that’s how you get a woman to sleep with you, and a lot of men don’t want to admit that they’ve done this with women they’ve dated
the reason men don’t view coercion as rape is because they genuinely don’t see it as wrong. so much of male sexuality is informed by rape culture that coercion is seen as a normal part of courting a woman. it’s why women who willingly sleep with men are sluts, whores, etc.
If there’s one thing I’ve learnt from women before me,it is not to make life altering sacrifices for men. They do not deserve such loyalty and commitment
the phrase "lipstick on a pig" has always inspired a deep sadness in me. I think of the pig, looking forward to her big night out, and I bring myself to the verge of tears.
a butch lesbian fell for pre transition twink me but when she realized what happened she said i was “obviously a girl” and to “just get on with it” which i hadn’t realized was an option
Just had a thought: since the complex recreates memories of people, what if Still Life Barbara's face looks like that, because it's pulling from the night she kicked him out? Clark would be drunk, so he'd be SEEING MULTIPLE!
you can tell Mormonism is an American invention by how much of their culture is about exploiting loopholes to get away with something. can’t drink caffeine but they’re obsessed with putting bullshit in soda. no coffee but the creamer is okay? it’s like soaking but for drugs.