I hate that gluten intolerance is like a fad because I’m straight up allergic to wheat and I shouldn’t have to explain that I’m actually allergic because people suck
A women’s value is not based upon if people want to fuck her. You ever talk to male friends of girls like that? It’s often a deep respect for them that they don’t want to fuck them.
Don’t put that weird ass male loneliness epidemic type talk on us. we can’t do anything fr.
@yngthickcock@mmmaheenmoonpie Do you feel better now? Do you think your dick is big and you’re desirable because you think that way? I’m just confused as to why you’d say that? To what flex on me because I’m a woman? Wow so tuff I bet your momma is proud.
@tepid_dog_water Actually, a lot of men carry the scars of those interactions too. They just shove it down and then suffer because they don’t seek any care for their mental health. People should absolutely seek assistance when those things happen etc. it’s not okay and doesn’t make you “stronger”
The older I get the more I find that men are regularly assaulted by women but just brush it off because of society. Consent matters both ways and it’s healthy to be regularly communicating it in relationships because it can change.
@johnwcbragg If you only value someone for the sex they give you then come 20 years down the road and they are wrinkly and need help going to the bathroom etc how will you want to stay?
The weeks after having a baby and she can’t what will you do?
Etc.
Hot take but if you can’t communicate needs with a partner because you’re worried that it’s too much work, how they will react etc then you shouldn’t have sex with them. True partners will respect you enough to value that.
@johnwcbragg Then I’m sorry your relationships are based on something as fleeting as sex.
Relationships are about intent. Showing up and choosing someone every day. Putting another first etc.
Sex based relationships aren’t as fulfilling because your body changes, you change etc.
@johnwcbragg 1. Then they in all seriousness need to figure that out.
2. Yes it can be. Sex is an expression of romantic love but it is not all that it is. There’s so many other ways to express love and romantic intent other than sex. If you can’t see that then you’re doing both wrong.
Respectfully I used to be this way and then realized I was missing an entire register of human experience because I had underdeveloped social intelligence. Even Jane Austen understood how seemingly trivial small talk was actually a window into the moral world
@johnwcbragg “Rationing” sex to keep your partner is an actually wild thing to do. You are both adults so basic communication should be able to be had. And you shouldn’t need to have sex to keep a partner. Everyone involved should be able to say no or talk about needs. You’re an incel huh?
@johnwcbragg It’s not all men until it comes to them needing sex to be in a relationship huh?
You do realize you can do surrogacy, adoption, etc. but also just talk to your partner about your needs? And if they value you then they will listen.
That’s an insane thought.
@johnwcbragg Well, making him your husband doesn’t need to involve sex. But if you want to do that then you shouldn’t marry him if you can’t communicate a basic thing like sexual preferences. As far as the babies thing goes you don’t need sex to do that either there’s many routes.
There’s a tiny music festival today in my town and I’m so excited. The firemen put on a lunch for donations. There’s free music and they bring in so many food trucks. Be ready for pics!
Most of my hobbies came from me being willing to listen to someone talk about them at length and going “ya know what? That sounds dope I’ll try it” life is too short to dismiss things outright because you might not like it etc.
Ya it may be annoying when I don’t naturally assume something but at the ripe old age of 29 I’m not going to sit here and guess why you’re upset, if you want something, etc. you’re an adult. Use your words.