my plans since 2015 has been to mind my business and stay out the way ….I’m adding onto that by allowing all of y’all to believe that y’all are correct even when you’re not… trust me it’s for me, not for you… but enjoy ! 😈
once you understand energy . how to invest it… when it’s being ciphened from you… vs when it’s being poured . authentic vs fraud your whole approach to social engagement is different
The real milestone is realizing that calling out a red flag isn’t about getting them to own it… it’s about you finally recognizing it. It’s about trusting your instincts enough to stop negotiating with the behavior and start adjusting your boundaries.
An adversary with motive, ego, and a proven history of shade isn’t going to say, “Yeah, you caught me.” People who benefit from the chaos they create don’t confess to it — they hide in it
We’re so quick to call out the red flag to the very person committing the offense, almost expecting them to suddenly become honest about their own ill intent. But that’s not how it works..
People believe that the lie is the cause of damage, but it’s not. The lasting cracks the lie creates in the foundation of the friendship are the real issues. Now, you have to constantly remind yourself that you cannot trust this person.