So, thank you @official_ONEUS ... I think I can say this was officially my favorite concert of the year!!
Also, the honmoon pretty much became nonexistent from the amount of serving being done tonight~ ๐๐
unfortunately, i don't like nonchalant men. Be dominant, check on me. Be affectionate. Tell me im gorgeous. Plan dates. Buy me flowers. Be absolutely obsessed with me.
I saw a woman on TikTok say she was a โgood girlโ her whole life. Did everything the โrightโ way. Followed the rules. Kept the peace. Put everyone else first.
Now sheโs in her 40s and said all she feels like she has to show for it is grief and a lot of built-up anger.
And honestlyโฆ as a woman in her 20s, I felt that deeply . Because nobody really talks about how being the โgood girlโ often benefits everyone around youโฆ except the actual good girl.
Everyone else gets the patience, the understanding, the sacrifice.
And sheโs the one left realizing she spent years shrinking herself just to keep everyone else comfortable.
you need to be slowmaxxing. you need to be reading long, fat books. you need to be making 48-hour chocolate chip cookies. you need to spend hours watching wildlife, you need to spend 15+ min making your coffee. you need to breathe in and breathe out. you need to be slowwwwwwwwwww.
don't know who needs to hear this, but start living. The days are flying by, and all you do is work, pay bills, and stress. Enjoy what you can- walks, sunsets, music, laughter and nature. Joy doesn't have to be expensive.
You deserve it.