“People get used to anything. The less you think about your oppression, the more your tolerance for it grows. After a while, people just think oppression is the normal state of things. But to become free, you have to be acutely aware of being a slave.” - Assata Shakur.
DO NOT tell people everything that you have going on in your life…. Relationships, ideas, next moves, etc!!!!! Only let people know what they need to know and that’s still very MINIMUM!!! Remember one day they can be FOR YOU and the next day they can just flip!!!