@PiecesofMargo And ofc your last civ experience was deeply traumatic, it makes a lot of sense that your nervous system would have something to say about trying another civ connection.
@PiecesofMargo I have a similar experience w civ dating vs clients… Last guy I dated, when we “officialized”, I was almost passing out in therapists office (seeing stars, blacking out)
Civ relationships: less predictable, more emotionally vulnerable
Sw: well defined boundaries, predictable
@barbieeheaux I have one guy who pays me quite a bit for customs on his own volition… But otherwise no, I probably charge more for live. I mostly direct people to my telegram group because I don’t really enjoy making customs lol
@PiecesofMargo I actually loved being pregnant so much… the swelling and heater like feeling was pretty tough at the end, but overall I had a positive experience. The birth, on the other hand 😬
@PiecesofMargo Acid reflux can do alot of damage to the throat/esophagus (including swallowing, as a result of inflammation), I hope you can find some relief soon. Blended watermelon and aloe helps me when it gets bad. 🫂
@pessimistichoo1 I charge a deposit for every single new client, no exceptions. For returning clients, I don’t require a deposit or pre-payment unless they’ve previously showed me.