Danish Christian female, 42, proud of my country, people, history and heritage as a Scandinavian.Conservative, YNWA. In love with vinter and Christmas ✝️🇩🇰⛄
@Nielsen_zen Haha 😅😅😅
Nej, den er sgu god nok - desværre.
Han startede tirsdag i sidste uge og er stadig ikke ovenpå endnu 😳😔
Og jeg faldt så syg for nogle dage siden 🙄
Tusind tak, Nielsen! 🙏🥰🌸
I experienced this in school.
I mean "dating" wasn't a thing back then, but a boy expressed interest and when I believed it, the group of boys all laughed, saying it was just a joke 🤷
If you’re curious what it’s like to be the “big girl” in a friend group, imagine you’re out celebrating your birthday with your friends, and a group of guys are chatting and looking over at your table, it’s loud and obvious they’re talking about someone(s) at your table.
One of the guys then approaches the table and taps your shoulder, he starts asking about you, your name, age, job, etc. Then he asks the golden question, “can I have your phone number?”
You hesitate because this doesn’t happen often. However, your friends hype you up. So you start to give your number, when he turns around and shouts to his friends “you guys owe me $50”
All the guys start laughing. You hear one guy say “I told you fat girls are easy.”
These situations of jokingly asking out big girls or pretending to be interested in them, is sickening. It’s one of the many reasons why I personally did not date until I lost weight.
Someone could have actually been interested in me, but when you’re made fun of and used as a joke so many times, you learn to protect yourself.
To people who do this, you suck. Your parents didn’t raise you well & everyone deserves respect no matter their size.
@Jondelinde Nej, både mænds tilbagetrækning og kvinders dertil tiltræden er ganske forståelige.
Det er dog en trist udvikling i dynamikken mellem kvinder og mænd.
Det gør mig ondt med din hustru.
Jeg kondolerer.
@grcielckt I get your struggle ❤️
Some accounts lie about being in recovery, to be honest.
Talk the talk, but dosen't walk the walk.
Please remain focus on yourself - you are worthy of living and eating, and you're working towards your own survival.
Nothing is more important than that 🌸
@Jondelinde simpelthen bare ikke er interesserede i at "lede" en kvinde og familien.
At være mand.
En tydelig stemme i familien, en beskytter, samt en der tager ansvar i hverdagen med børn osv.
Så bliver kvinder mere maskuline, da de skal udfylde den tomme plads.
@Jondelinde En problematisk dynamik, der går begge veje.
Jeg har skullet lære, det er okay at vente på, en mand åbner døren for mig.
Jeg har følt, det har virket forkælet og berettiget af mig, og det har taget tid at aflære.
Derudover kan det være svært, da det ofte virker som om, mænd ⬇️
Nu påstår de, at der er et europæisk land, hvor det er forbudt at ødelægge en bog, der opfordrer til drab på landets egne borgere.
Haha. De er sku skøre, de konspirationsteoretikere.