Learn to take some pain, big guy. Suffering builds character, and sometimes you have to go through hell with them if you want to go to paradise with them.
A honey badger mindset is best exemplified by the proverbial "I don't give a f**k" strut. Honey badgers don't care. They hold positions that they believe in irrespective of the consequences. They walk tall. They are confident. They are combattive when need be. Activate your inner honey badger. Christopher Hitchens was a honey badger. @elonmusk is a honey badger. Most historic individuals are honey badgers by definition. Fence-sitters are not honey badgers. Woke people are not honey badgers. NAVY Seals are. Be an intellectual and entrepreneurial NAVY Seal.