If you're an adult with braincells you already know this but fiction can't actually groom human beings. Fiction exists as a passive thing and humans engage with it through active decisions; reading it, watching it, etc.
Grooming can only be done actively, by other humans.
“everybody fucking hates me” was ingrained in me at 8 years old so now to this day no matter how close someone is to me i will always wonder if they actually like being my friend
i love when they put their hand on your tummy and rub it a little when fucking you. i also love when they rub your tummy up and down to soothe you. another thing i love is when they notice your hand grasping for something bc its all too much so they give you their hand to hold.