Man they like to say you’re too sensitive thanks in a world one this where people are glorifying having no feelings, I feel deeply and feel nonverbal cues all this means for us sensitve special beautiful hearted cares about people especkally black folks men and women even ones I’m not attracted to . We are special and have superpowers lmao
It’s best to address these things in the moment but make sure who you are addressing is safe or wi it re-traumatize you. These kind of folks will flip it and and blame you yooooo it’s crazy 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Gotta give grace and compassion cause the insults I’d throw would be fighting words
I actually had a fist fight with my younger brother some years ago…trying to communicate
I never addressed my feelings with those people who I love, who are not all bad but did some damage because my I knew they would say you just too sensitive and deny any of this stuff ever happened
Man it’s really exiting. Powerful , and sad to see how this started and I realized I’m not 100 percent crazy. LMAO the way they speak and have spoken to me so harsh insults deaths as jokes and heavy criticism , I keep
Saying this but I never got this deep, because it’s scary and I wanted to forget and I let my self stay busy and buried it tried to escape it with (insert solanbe) . But now I feel free if you’re family made you the center of insults you can change and you’re not alone
You see your defects of character are partially due to your early caregivers at home then your peers in the street in school and as an adult it can affect relationships romantic and friends. Also your thoughts and choices.
Wanna anallyze your family and the roles a good place to start is #FamilSystems and roles in family I had an Ahha moment about 3 years ago studying for my
Social work license
And it’s never an emergency it be to ask me for money or fish for info to sales all bs the family. That’s why I don’t tell her anything just surface love her S my first cuz but I’m sick of them acting like I owe them something .