Money makes men more ready to build. Money makes women more free to opt out.
A man's surplus turns outward. More money makes him more marriageable. More confident. More capable of carrying the weight of a household. It makes partnership feel possible. Children feel possible. His income becomes a bridge into family.
A woman's surplus turns inward. More money makes her less dependent on a man. More selective. More aware of what she'd be giving up by stepping back for marriage, pregnancy, children. Her income becomes insulation from family.
I'm not saying women should be poor. I'm not saying men should be worshipped for earning more. I'm saying money isn't neutral. It does different things to different people.
When men earn more, they build families. When women earn more, they start asking whether family is still worth the cost.
It's interesting you say that because I don't see a cadre of black men who pounce on headlines to demonize black women. Last week, you had a major black feminist publicly invoking the idea of revenge death squads against random black men for domestic violence against black women. I'm telling you it doesn't matter how many headlines you see, you're not gonna see men talking about a revenge death squad targeting black women.
That’s because of decades of socialization in our community. People born after 1970 are socialized to not respect & value Black men, but instead disrespect & belittle us. They have no sense of Black male leadership & don’t respect it because they’ve never seen it.
That nigga wake up call is brutal when it happens. I show sympathy to black men who see this and change as this was all us at some point. I despise ones who love in denial.
Will you look at that. All of a sudden, age gaps are appropriate when older women want to entertain younger men. This is why I unapologetically date younger women no matter what people have to say about it.
That isn’t how you reclaim your place as leaders. LMAOO.
2nd wave Feminism really buck broke black men.
We don’t have a domination gene AT ALL.
White and Asian women are way way more educated than black women per capita. Yall gotta stop this weak shit!!!
Women don’t ask men out largely because they’re afraid of rejection. To them rejection equals shame and that’s something they’re especially sensitive to.
And deep down, they know their chances of rejection are higher because of the way they choose. Their hypergamous nature.
Black women online telling you niggas they need a ring to cook a meal for you, but they doing poly race play with white boys and living out their plantation fantasies for free, no strings attached. These you niggas queens lol.
The argument is about resources. As men get older, their access to resources increases. Black Women think that they're entitled to Black Men's resources. I'll always choose a 24yo six & peace over a 35+ dime with all of her hangups, baggage & bodies