Someone said this to me & it hit me hard:
"If you knew how difficult and long it took some people to recover their peace of mind and happiness, you'll understand why they shut all doors at any potential negativity and also why they can be so selective about who they allow in their lives."
Tahajjud changes everything, If you are going through a hard time or your heart doesn’t feel at peace or you want something to happen desperately. Start praying tahajjud and you will see miracles happening in your life.
It’s very important to learn how to be okay on your own. You need to know how to pick yourself up when you fall, provide for yourself, wipe your own tears, and make yourself happy. Having people around is great, but you can’t rely on them to always be there.
Please date sweet men. Please date men who respect you in anger. Please date men who are soft spoken. Please date men who are patient with you. Please date men who respect their own bodies. Please date men that are kind to your soul. Please date men who have self-control
My love language is dua. When you love someone you make dua for them.There is nothing better that you can give to someone except for dua. You can literally make dua for someone's happiness. You can make dua to allah for their goodness.
Some traumas change you so deeply that you stop loving the things you once adored. You get angry at what used to bring you peace. You stop caring for yourself, stop taking care of yourself, and slowly lose parts of who you were. The hardest part? Most people never understand .
@Matiullahjan919@adilshahzeb you must look into this, how has such a person with an absolutely absurd English pronunciation and grammar made it to the English State Broadcaster under your leadership?
This obnoxiousness of a presenter will most definitely sink the ship.
My intentions will always be pure because I have no desire to be the type of person that does people wrong. I know what it’s like to be disappointed, overlooked, and given less than what I gave. That’s exactly why I try my best to move right with people. Am I perfect? No. But I’ve never been the type to intentionally use people, mislead people, or move with bad intentions. At the end of the day, I can live with my mistakes because I know my heart was in the right place. And that’s something I’ll never change about myself.
One of the most valuable things I read today:
Stop assuming that people are upset with you. Stop trying to guess what others are thinking.
Stop feeling responsible for controlling someone else’s thoughts or emotions. Let people handle themselves. If they need to say something to you, they will. And if they choose not to, that’s on them, not on you.
Love your fucking life. Take pictures of everything. Tell people you love them. Talk to random strangers. Do things you're scared to do. Fuck it, because so many of us die and no one remembers a thing we did. Take your life and make it the best story in the world.Don't waste that shit.
I ain’t change, I just stopped giving people more than what they give me. I used to go out my way, keep understanding, and keep showing up even when it wasn’t mutual. Now I pay attention and move off that. If you distant, I’m distant. If you switch up, I fall back. People swear you changed when you finally stop overplaying your part.
The best of people are those who worry about the impact of their words and actions on the hearts of others. We leave an everlasting mark on others, speak kindly or not at all, treat people well, do not cause any harm, be gentle with the hearts of others.
Ya Allah, I’m really tired.
Not just physically, but inside. I smile infront of people, but when I’m alone everything feels heavy. I overthink everything. I blame myself for things I can’t even fix and I feel like I’m always behind in life. I don’t know how to explain this emptiness. I carry every day, but You already know it better than I do. I keep loosing motivation. I keep breaking quietly, but I still come back to You because I don’t have anywhere else to go. Please don’t let my sadness turn me away from You. If I’m weak, hold me. If I’m lost, guide me. And if I’m falling apart, please fix me in a way only You truly ever can. Ameen.