I can’t believe I watched all 23 minutes of this girl confronting her family about being racist but it was fascinating to witness. They use every trope in the book to deflect and gaslight her. But she stood her ground.
Swae Lee responds to French Montana saying he didn’t get a SINGLE dollar from the 11x platinum hit “Unforgettable,” claiming he wrote the whole song himself 😳🎤👀
He says French finessed his way onto the track, reveals Jeremih & Wizkid were originally on it, and admits he REGRETS putting only French on the artwork because people think it’s his song 💀
They don’t REALLY want a man with emotional intelligence; they actually want a man who practices “EMOTIONAL ACCOMMODATION.”
What they really want is: I want to feel and express my emotions however I want, whenever I want, and you will take it, validate it, and comfort me… even if it destroys you in the process.
Emotional intelligence isn’t about catering to someone else’s every mood. It’s the ability to control your OWN emotions, think clearly under pressure, and respond like a rational adult. It’s about self-control, awareness, and taking responsibility for how your feelings affect others.
also when they say they want a man with emotional mature, what they actually mean is: be hyper-attentive to my moods, anticipate my feelings, bend
yourself around me, and put my emotions above everything else. But the moment a man stands up for his own feelings, sets
boundaries, or refuses to constantly carry their emotional load, he’s branded “insensitive” emotionally unitelligent or “emotionally immature.”
Let’s be honest: they don’t want intelligence…they want an emotional punching bag.
My mom once told me if she has a problem with my dad, she talks to him first. Not her friends. Not social media.
She said, “Advice is fine. But your partner shouldn’t be the villain in someone else’s story before you’ve even tried to fix it together.”