As long as your intentions are pure, don’t stress over anyone or anything. Trust that you’ll always end up exactly where you’re meant to be. Even when wicked people try to harm you, Allah has a way of turning their plans against them.
That pre-blessed feeling you get when you just know, deep in your heart, that Allah is about to change your life for the better. You don’t know when or how, but you can feel that something beautiful is coming.🥹❤️
Sarki, I met my wife when she was just a medical student with nothing but big dreams and an unwavering determination to become a doctor.
I stayed by her side through the sleepless nights, endless exams, clinical postings, house job, and NYSC.
We got married while she was a Medical officer, and today she’s a Junior resident in Internal Medicine, working tirelessly toward becoming a senior resident next year inshallah.
Before we got married, people warned me.
“Don’t marry a doctor.”
“She’ll never have time for you.”
“You’ll be lonely.”
“Your children will be raised by housemaids.”
“Her career will always come before her family.”
Wallahi, every single one of those predictions has been proven wrong.
Since the day we got married, I have never felt neglected not for one day.
I have never had to compete with her career for her love.
Despite the exhausting calls, emergency shifts, sleepless nights, and the emotional weight that comes with saving lives, she still comes home and gives her best to us.
She is an amazing doctor to her patients, an incredible mother to our daughter, and the most loving wife I could ever ask for.
She makes our house feel like a home. She never makes me feel like I’m carrying this marriage alone, I’ve always encouraged her to fly higher.
The problem has never been working women. The problem is most people assuming that every successful working woman will neglect her home.
My wife is living proof that a woman can wear a white coat all day, save lives, chase her dreams, and still come home to love her husband and children with her whole heart.
If I had to choose a wife a thousand times over, I would still choose her every single time.
When Allah wakes you up at 3am, Pray Tahajjud
Before you make any big decisions, Pray Istikhaarah
Before you touch your phone in the morning, Pray Fajr
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Don’t forget that you're really that girl- the one that Allah protected, guided and carried. Allah has always been by your side. How could you lose sight of your worth when he has been with you every step of the way. You are a reflection of His strength and mercy.
The culture of “rufa asiri” is one of the reasons we are where we are in Arewa today. A child molester? Rufa masa asiri. A criminal? Rufa masa asiri. A thug terrorizing communities? Rufa masa asiri. Yanzu Nigeria dinma anache mu rufa mata Asiri.