@solyman24@Salqahtani1994 May allah protect you from this fitna shaykh and may allah protect you from this trial. إن شاء الله I'll meet you soon and become your very close student. إن شاء الله
- تقدم على أكثر من ٥٠٠ وظيفة
- يقضي يومة يحدث الإيميل كل شوي
- ينادونك لمقابلتين بالكثير
- تمر على ٥ مراحل مقابلات
- بالنهاية: رفض
- المجتمع يعتبرك “مو ناجح”
- حتى الراحة تصير معها إحساس بالذنب
- ديون تبدأ تتراكم
- الأصدقاء يقل تواصلهم شوي شوي
- وتبدأ الضغوط النفسية تزيد بشكل كبير
Most marriages don't end over betrayal. They erode in small moments, both people angry at once, and neither willing to be the one who softens first. The Salaf understood this danger, and one Companion built his whole marriage around avoiding it.
Abū'd-Dardā' (رضي الله عنه) gave his wife Umm'd-Dardā' a single rule to live by:
«إذا غضبتُ فرضِّيني، وإذا غضبتِ رضَّيتُكِ، فإذا لم نكن هكذا ما أسرعَ ما نفترق»
"If I become angry, then win me back. And if you become angry, I will win you back. For if we are not like this, how quickly we would part."
Notice it runs both ways. He doesn't wait for her to repair things. He commits to being the one who mends it, and asks the same of her. Anger met with anger has only one ending.
Someone has to choose to fix it. Every time.
Ibn Ḥibbān in Rawḍat al-ʿUqalāʾ
What Would Shaykh Muqbil Say If He Saw the Smartphones We Have Today!
Shaykh Muqbil ibn Hadi al-Wadi‘i (rahimahullah) was asked thirty years ago:
“If you have a telephone, then inform us of its number.”
He replied:
“We do not have a telephone, nor do we desire one, because it wastes our time.”
(Gharat al-Ashritah 1/279)
In order to break or reduce the desire for an unlawful woman some scholars said:
A man who sees a woman and he is attracted by her
— He should remember cow dung
— He should remember the unpleasant foul odors / her smelly bodily odors
I strongly encourage every Muslim to listen to, study, and benefit from the lessons and lectures of Shaykh Ṣāliḥ ibn ʿAbd al-ʿAzīz Āl-Shaykh to the greatest extent possible.
He is among the senior scholars, with deep grounding in creed, manhaj, and fiqh, and is a flag-bearer of Jarḥ wa Taʿdīl. He possesses a thorough understanding of societies and cultures, and is uniquely gifted in calibrating his guidance to suit each.
His command of the English language further equips him to speak with precision on matters pertaining to the West including the ideological warfare that is actively waged against Islam and Muslims.
May Allāh preserve him.