@Dearme2_ Forcing myself to quit my original country to start a new life somwhere else, what finally changed me for ever. I couldn’t believe one second that I would get better, and this decision saved me.
God please don't send me another man who doesn't know how to communicate, take accountability, or emotionally show up. I don't want a man who's still battling himself, avoiding healing, depressed, or emotionally unavailable and refusing help. I don't want a man who can't stand firm, speak for himself, or take control of his own life. I don't want a man who belongs to someone else, is still tied to past situations, or lacks compassion, empathy, patience, and romance.
Que les gens qui sont partit en Australie qui comprennent pk plus personne donne de nouvelles arrivé ici. La vie ici est tellement belle, ont travaille certes dur, mais l’argent y est, la qualité de vie aussi. Je vous le souhaite à tous.
There is a WOMAN out there right now with no boyfriend, no side men, no situationship, no sneaky links, just by herself building the life she wants. Wherever you are, sis, you are going to win.
As a married woman, I would never advise any woman to get married.
Like, literally never.
It’s not worth it.
Because nobody tells you how heavy it feels living with a man who was never taught to be a partner.
You do not just share a home.
You share stress.
You share emotional labor.
You share the burden of his moods, his ego, and his silence.
And the scary part is…
you can be married and still feel alone.
People think marriage is love.
But many women are surviving it, not enjoying it.
You start missing the peace you used to take for granted.
The quiet.
The freedom.
The version of you that was not constantly “trying.”
So no, I will never sell that dream.
If it happens, it should add to your life.
Not erase you.