People really dont care about being friends with good people. If the person is fun that's all they care about. You can tell them how they've hurt you or all the bad things they've done. They really dont care.
If you dont like me Im not gonna give you attention to "keep the peace" Im going to ignore you. And you should leave me alone too. I dont want to waste a single shmeckle of energy on you.
Everyone wants you to be normal in middle and high school and then everyone wants you to be your true self afterwards because everyone else is "boring" because they got everything interesting about themselves bullies out
That's why my love life has been easy, if Im always rejecting relationships and keeping a foot out the door. Once Im full in there is so much chance to hurt.
You can't expect people to be mentally stable if they've had a bad childhood and haven't gone to therapy. Even if you think they are, it will show eventually.