Do you spend too much time worrying about what other people think?
Approval seeking can lead to:
- people pleasing
- overthinking
- fear of judgement
- anxiety
New article: why approval seeking keeps anxiety going: https://t.co/XR5eF1BLuv
#Anxiety#Confidence#ely
One of the biggest myths about public speaking anxiety is that everyone can see how nervous you are - research suggests the opposite.
Most people notice less than you think, judge less than you expect & often can't tell you're anxious anyway
https://t.co/ytqWUryLAj
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Ever worry about what other people think of you?
Psychologists call it the 'spotlight effect' – our tendency to overestimate how much attention other people pay to our appearance, behaviour and mistakes.
I've written more about the research here: https://t.co/D9DCwoq4nN
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Many people with social anxiety look calm externally while internally overthinking everything.
Replaying conversations
Fear of judgement
Constant self-monitoring
These patterns can change.
Article: https://t.co/zCgAa4Oblq
#socialanxiety#anxiety#overthinking#mentalhealth
Many people appear to be coping outwardly while internally feeling mentally exhausted, overwhelmed or unable to properly switch off.
Following my recent Ely Standard article, I’ve explored anxiety, stress and overthinking: https://t.co/JFxn5K4ntP
#anxiety#stress#overthinking
Many people experiencing anxiety fear they are 'losing control'.
These fears can feel extremely convincing when anxiety is high - they are a common part of anxiety/panic patterns.
New article: https://t.co/xCfadPCAfO
#anxiety#panicattacks#mentalhealth#overthinking
Many people with anxiety appear outwardly calm while internally dealing with overthinking & panic.
For Mental Health Awareness Week - a new article exploring why so many people struggle quietly with anxiety: https://t.co/qrAl6MOUN0
#MentalHealthAwarenessWeek#anxiety#ely
Many people with anxiety at work look like they’re coping externally while internally feeling exhausted from pressure, stress and overthinking.
A new real client case study is now live:
https://t.co/zkbtEITwnX
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Anxiety coming back doesn’t mean you’re back to the start.
It usually means the same pattern has been triggered again.
https://t.co/1hJU009MgC
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Fear of needles isn’t just about the needle.
It’s about the response your mind has learned over time.
Change the response → the experience changes.
https://t.co/9Emo5qG5Zm
#anxiety#phobia#fearofneedles#ely
Why do some thoughts feel harder to ignore?
Often it’s not the thought — it’s the response to it.
More attention = more persistence.
https://t.co/h0fCnXwkOB
#anxiety#ocd#intrusivethoughts#mentalhealth#ely
Social situations don’t always feel difficult - but they can feel draining.
Often this is about how the mind processes stimulation, not a lack of confidence.
Learn more: https://t.co/LYM7mBzkgo
#anxiety#introvert#confidence#ely#mentalhealth
Overthinking often shows up most in social situations - replaying conversations and worrying how you came across.
It’s not a lack of confidence, but a pattern of anxiety and self-focus: https://t.co/84vzyG9r6P
#anxiety#overthinking#confidence#ely#newmarket
Recently featured in the Ely Standard discussing panic attacks and why they can feel so frightening.
Many people initially think something serious is happening - which is completely understandable.
📷 Read more: https://t.co/tr3x7uWohn
More people in Ely are experiencing anxiety - often without a clear cause.
Understanding why this happens can be a key first step in feeling more in control.
https://t.co/qL4Gwk85zm
#anxiety#mentalhealth