J U L I E • H A R P E R

FOUNDER of I AM HER | Author | Artist | Songwriter | Producer | Feminist

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#iamher

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It’s true. When they show you who they are, believe them. But when they show you how good and kind and safe they are, don’t make them pay the price for some past con-artist’s mistakes. Just receive their goodness. Don’t push them away because you’re scared. You’ll regret it.

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LOVE didn’t hurt you. The lack of it did. You got hurt because love was missing, not because love hurts. So don’t blame love. Don’t shut down and rob yourself of the best thing in the world just because you’ve encountered someone who pretended to have the love you actually do.

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“I say this all the time because it’s true - You get this software upgrade when you turn 40. Like, you just get an upgrade. You wake up and your software is fucking upgraded…and you feel whole.” ~ gwyneth paltrow

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If he keeps disappearing and reappearing, it is NOT because he had some awakening and wants you again. It’s because no one else wanted him…again. Don’t get it twisted. You don’t want that guy. You deserve the kind who is sure about you the first time. Obviously👑. #iamher

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@lauraveltz 👑Queen

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Being a trophy might sound like a good idea, until you realize that a trophy spends most of her life on a shelf. #iamher

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No matter their position, title, status or perceived power, they are not your once chance at anything. They are not the one way to your dream. They do not hold the keys to your Queendom. No one has that much power - unless you give it to them. So don’t. #iamher

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“I want to stay married to them, this specific person” and “I just don’t want to be divorced” are not the same.

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‘YOU DON’T HAVE TO MAKE EVERYTHING RIGHT WITH EVERYBODY,’ said all the happy peaceful people everywhere.

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@MarenMorris 👑Queen

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If your pants get too tight, go buy bigger pants. Seems obvious, but women will punish themselves for months trying to get back to their “ideal size” and the whole damn time they’re sad. Let’s not do this anymore. Get enough sizes for all of life’s fluctuations and parties.

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