I find it really weird and concerning if someone has a group of friends they see and speak too often yet always says they don't have no friends and don't need nobody!
Most definetely. Will live in a prodimanetly Narcissistic world as our norm that goes unnoticed because people are used to it. Narcissism is a spectrum. More people R dysfunctional in this way than not. We need awareness to this. Emotional intel, is not sumn u can buy.
- Narcissism is on a spectrum. They are different types of narcs.
- Narc traits are also on a spectrum and learned behaviors. Survivors can also pick these up while in contact.
- NPD
Is it anti-aging or are we giving our skin the nutrients that it's so desperately needs that we have been as a society unknowingly neglectful of!?#skincare#antiaging#cereva
- Narcissism is on a spectrum. They are different types of narcs.
- Narc traits are also on a spectrum and learned behaviors. Survivors can also pick these up while in contact.
- NPD
Some of y'all be worrying me with your partners when y'all talk about how y'all scared to eat the food they give you after an argument! Yo you are not okay are you!?
Telling people to have compassion for their abusers before giving compassion & empathy to the abused is a trauma response and based it abuse consciousness. It is literally a gaslit tactic to make the abusers pain more important than the abused & a sign that u have been abused.
Stop telling abuse victims to have compassion for their abusers! Thats likw qatcjing somebody be stabbed and then leaving them there to bleed our while telling them to have compassion as you are watching tje very same pain that you say their abusers are having!
No matter how wise you think you are the past doesnt go away until you process what you need to process from it! The past is residual and is shaped in how you operate in more ways especially subconsciously than people realize. Like braking a leg a never allowing it to heal right.
Because when it gets to the point where it's being addressed there are probably patterns of hurtful behavior and actions and even words that are not being seen when people are pushing people away and coming in and out of people's lives!
People who come in&out of people's lives can become really abusive/extremely negatively impactful because the person that is coming in and out is only doing it on their terms which is not a relationship but entertainment & controlling. Address communication dysfunctions.
saying "it's not about you" when this is being addressed doesn't erase the impact of this dysfunction. Some people are not aware of their impact on others but how others are impacting them or what they perceive is being impacted on to them. people are blind to the layers of it...
Boundaries are a definition of self, not a border or fences to keep things out! Do you have boundaries or do you have borders that you think are boundaries? Sometimes those "boundaries" have severe negative impact on people & situations around u.
A lot of people confuse boundaries with having ultimate control & only having things defined by their own terms. The more u build healthy boundaries the more u realize that it is a relationship with u & other people/ situations around u. You can have u & other people too at the.