It’s probably the same pain with your husband seeing other women with higher/better qualities than you.
If you’ve chosen each other, focus on each other because there will always be someone better.
1️⃣. Prepare ahead & Be organized - this is something I do every year prior to resumption. Always be IN THE KNOW. I always make sure that days before I resume, I’ve written out the syllabus & outlined the things required of me by the course, especially after my meetings with seniors