I heard a therapist say, “Your feelings are always valid, your behavior is not.” She explained by saying feel what you feel BUT you need to be accountable for what you do as a result of those feelings.
i can fall out with a friend & family member over a misunderstanding and miscommunication and work it out. But YOU HAVE ONE TIME to show me you're jealous, intimidated, untrustworthy, calculated, manipulative, or Ingenuine. You'll NEVER be welcomed in my space again! & that's why most of my old friends & family mad they can't hang,
Free before 11… no money
Charlotte Russe… NO SHEIN.
Bar lines… no bottle girls.
Dance floors… no sections.
Green apple Ciroc… no Tito’s.
Club photographer… no instagram.
Short dresses… no coat.
i actually think “surface-level” friendships are very healthy. not everyone in your life has to be your ride-or-die. some friends are for the gym. some friends are for church. some are just for complaining about work or bureaucracy. when you stop expecting everyone to be your everything, the disappointment disappears. the deep conversations are for the 2–3 people closest to you.
Somebody said don't be afraid to spend money on concert tickets and travel. Be afraid of growing old and realizing the only place you ever went was work.
And I couldn't agree more.