May God go before you today and grant peace to your heart, clarity to your mind, strength for your work, and protection on every side. May doors of grace open for you, and may you find favor in places you least expect. Amen๐๐ฝ
Heavenly Father, we come before You this Thursday morning, grateful for Your love and care. Thank You for the gift of life and for the new day that lies ahead.
Guide us in all that we do today. Help us to make wise choices, to speak kindly, and to act with compassion.
I have a question:
You married your good wife from a good family, and unfortunately, she passed away.
Her younger sister is still unmarried and she also has good character.
Will you be willing to marry her?
Yes or No, state your reasons ๐.
MESSAGE TO GRASSROOTS PLAYERS ON X:
I have seen several requests from those asking for a trial opportunity with @3scacademy and also the First Team @ShootingS.
Kindly, reach out to @Ogundipe_Prince.
He's a member of the Shooting Stars recruitment department.
He will shortlist your name and when it's time in June, we will invite the selected players to Ibadan.
There will be opportunities with the NPFL squad if we spot exceptional talent among the young players.
I wish you success, and I pray to see you all at the top.
May God meet you at the point of your need today.
May He strengthen you where you are weak, guide you where you are confused, and lift you where you feel discouraged.
May doors open for you, may peace fill your heart, and may grace speak louder than your fears. Amen
God ordained marriage, yes.
But not everyone will or should get married.
What fuels marriage is money.
And it's largely hinged on the man.
If the man that you are dating right now is not showing you any true potential to provide financially in marriage, please do not get married to him.
As a woman, you'd suffer in that marriage if you get married to a lazy man.
Or if you get married to a man that is just struggling to get by.
And you won't be able to function properly as either a mother or a wife.
The only way that you'd be able to function properly, is if your husband takes away the burden of provision from you.
Your heart would be heavy if you heard the cries of hunger from your children.
And your husband would be there, doing nothing about it.
The reason I am saying this is because a lot of wives and mothers are living in regret. They constantly call for financial help from family and friends so that they can feed their children.
But they have husbands.
Yesterday, I posted a video of a man and his wife publicly embarrassing themselves.
The wife was screaming that she pays the school fees, she feeds the kids, she does this and that, and her husband was shamelessly standing there, replying to her.
If you watched the video to the end, you would have heard the man wishing that his wife would die before him.
That is why I keep telling you women about the dangers of enabling a man, or getting married to a man who hasn't proven to you that he's willing or capable of stepping into that role as a father and husband.
He resents his wife, but he's eating her food.
He takes his wife's money, but he wishes her dead.
His wife is paying the school fees for the kids, but he's angry and wishes to ruin the business that provides her the money to do those things.
Those ones are the ones that decided to wash their dirty linens in the public.
There are thousands of homes like that.
And I am pretty sure that some of you married women reading this are experiencing same.
A man doesn't have to be rich before he marries a wife, but he must be ready to take up the financial responsibilities of his household.
That is how he must start.
He must do this with kindness & sacrifice, and with God on his side.
The wife must see that he has been able to show that he's the head of the home.
Now, this is where I want to land.
There are married men who have maintained this role for many years in their marriage, until things became tough financially.
That's life and it happens. And when this happens, it affords the man the opportunity to see who he is truly married to.
Would his wife change in her behavior towards him because she's genuinely concerned about him, or would she change because she is no longer interested in the marriage?
Will she step into his role temporarily as a support, or would she abandon him to his fate?
Whichever one it is, your prayer as a man is that God may continue to show you mercy and keep you in good health so that you'll continue to be the provider as much as you can.
Because once money is lacking, that marriage will never be the same.
Even if you're married to a good wife.
AJD.
Mary, Mother of the Risen Lord, we rejoice with you in the victory of your Son over sin and death. Intercede for us, that we may truly live as people of the Resurrection. Help us to leave behind the tombs of sin, fear, and despair, and walk in the newness of life that Christ has won for us. May our lives reflect the joy and freedom of Easter. Alleluia. ๐๐ฝ
@RonaldOumaOtis@Bigchief254 Yes you maybe say the truth but if you play this game you will no that in Africa and south American there are guy that do cheat on age but when you are good at the first time of the game make use of it which is what all of them are doing