@Kayy_ZA with respect, what kind of insecurities are you dealing with here, when the very idea of him doing something nice for you (and also you asked) is contorted into a form of labour and disdain. leave him sis
Yazi umuntu usuke ekubukela phansi kanjani to say “we will never be in the same room” and for it to happen in less than 3 months is crazy stuff 😭😭😭
It’s either you have to admit that you’re not who think you are, or I’m not who you think I am.😭😭
Also Naomi has gotten into legal trouble for being violent to people under her in the past. She was convicted of assault on four different occasions between 1998 and 2009 and has been accused of violent behaviour 11 times.
This isn’t someone to defend.
That whole “be careful how you out your abuser” logic is just another side of the coin of victim blaming because often times when people say things like this, they blatantly disregard your experiences/your pain and start warning you about how you shouldn’t have spoken up.
I can’t believe this. A young black girl is openly speaking about being bullied and threatened by a powerful person who is known to fraternize with rapists and abusers. And black feminists are giving her … PR Advice?
We say “believe Black girls”, “protect Black girls”. Yet Black girls speak against powerful people, we’re advising them to do pr and media training? By this time? Ei?