this is why people hit a certain age and start joining running clubs, training for marathons, taking a cooking course etc btw. we all just wanna feel alive!!!
once you turn 20 you have to fight everyday for the rest of your life to not lose your personality & spirit...bc what once came naturally to you will be exhausted into nothing if you don't actively Try. it's terrifyingly easy to become a lethargic, soulless adult
i think what kc meant when he said “when i think of black women, i think of you” went over y’all’s heads.
he didn’t mean HER specifically, that would be crazy he just met her. pretty sure he meant women like her, trying to reassure her that she’s checking all of his boxes. i don’t think anything about this is performative, if anything more men should be this vulnerable & reassuring to their significant others