Okay. So you went on a hike with your man and he made a comment saying “this is where I was going to keel you” and when he realized you were recording,”omg did you record that” he said he was kidding .
Now you are calling it dark humor 😭😭😭😭
What’s wrong with some ladies?
Three weeks ago, my 23-year-old neighbor was kidnapped on her way to Kontagora in Niger State.
While in captivity, the bandits repeatedly raped her taking turns sleeping with her night after night. Still, they kept bargaining with her father over the phone, demanding ransom even as they violated her.
Her father fought with everything he had. He hustled day and night, borrowed from everyone, took loans, sold whatever he could determined to bring his daughter home.
When he finally gathered the full amount, he called the bandits and begged them, ‘Please, give the phone to my daughter. Let me speak to her. I want her to know I’m coming for her.’
They gave her the phone.
In a broken, traumatized voice, she told her father: ‘Dad, do not suffer yourself looking for the money. They have been sleeping with me. I’m traumatized. I can’t forgive myself. Even if I’m released, I’ll kill myself. Don’t bother paying the ransom.’
Those were the last words she ever spoke to him.
While her father was still holding the phone, he heard the gunshot. He heard his daughter being killed. Moments later, the bandits sent pictures of her remains to him, a final act of cruelty.
A 23-year-old girl. My neighbor. Someone’s daughter, someone’s sister, someone’s friend gone in the most horrific way possible.
This is not just one story. This is the nightmare too many families are living in Niger State and across Nigeria. Young women snatched on the roads, violated, used as bargaining chips, and discarded like nothing.
Living in Nigeria has become truly scary. You wake up, you step out, and you don’t know if you or your loved ones will return home. The fear is constant. The pain is constant. And too often, justice never comes.
Rest in peace to my neighbor.
These “bandits” are not that sophisticated. If the Nigerian government actually wanted to find them, they would find them in a few hours. The government is complicit in this. it’s not rocket science.
“If your husband cheats, the first thing is to find how to help him come out of the problem. Don’t be self-seeking about it — Actor Daniel Etim Effiong”
What he’s trying to say is
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If your husband cheats on you, do not cheat on him or leave him, find out what you did that made him cheat 🫢
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They're trying to do damage control. They're claiming it wasn't indigenes that did it, it was strangers.
They're about to shift the blame to male students
Na like this e dey start
My heart breaks!!!! I have cried. More than 10 men on a woman?! In broad daylight. So so evil.
You can hear them screaming…you can see the fear…the struggle. Yet, everyone goes on as if this is normal
Many girls have reportedly been r@p£d and m0l£sted by men in Ozoro during what is being described as a “r@p!ng festival” in the area.
According to multiple reports and videos circulating online, today is said to be the day of this festival in the Ozoro community, and girls are wvrned not to go outside. It is alleged that any girl seen outside could be att@ck£d and r@p£d by groups of men.
Foreigners who are unaware of this situation have reportedly fallen v!ctim as well. There is Delta state university in Ozoro, and many female students may not be fully aware of the d@nger. It is distvrbing that something like this could be tolerated in society. This is heartbreaking, and urgent action needs to be taken.
The reason why this case is getting so much attention and something is being done is because clips made it to social media.
If not, things would’ve still been the same.
Everywhere is just so quiet. Miss me with ‘I don’t like posting’, ‘I’m a quiet guy’, blah blah blah. Just a bunch of rape apologists and enablers. Can’t speak against it offline but can’t do it online, either. Cowards!
Yet when your favorite team is playing, we’ll hear it
Let break down this “not all men” stuff for you people
Out of 10 men in a room, one cracks a sexual joke.
Two of them actually find it funny.
Three of them don’t find it funny but chuckle just to fit in.
Four of them don’t find it funny but don’t say anything.
None of them says, “stop, that’s actually disturbing”.
Later, 9 men go back home believing they’re part of the good majority, unlike the man who cracked the sexual joke. But from a woman’s perspective, there isn’t much difference between the people who laughed, the people who laughed just to fit in and the people who said nothing.
All three do the same thing. They keep the room safe for the men who cross the line. And that’s the part “not all men” doesn’t address.
Women aren’t always saying that all men harass, but what we are saying is that a lot of good, polite men end up protecting the system where harassment feels low risk.
I understand why men resist this framing, but doing nothing is not the same as doing no harm, when the environment itself is what enables thr harm. The least you guys can do for women is to SPEAK UP.
It’s the same thing going on with this raping festival, some men wouldn’t participate but they wouldn’t stop the men that are participating.
But since they’re not part of the majority, they think they’re the “good” ones, when all they’re doing is protecting the system that keeps failing women.
Let break down this “not all men” stuff for you people
Out of 10 men in a room, one cracks a sexual joke.
Two of them actually find it funny.
Three of them don’t find it funny but chuckle just to fit in.
Four of them don’t find it funny but don’t say anything.
None of them says, “stop, that’s actually disturbing”.
Later, 9 men go back home believing they’re part of the good majority, unlike the man who cracked the sexual joke. But from a woman’s perspective, there isn’t much difference between the people who laughed, the people who laughed just to fit in and the people who said nothing.
All three do the same thing. They keep the room safe for the men who cross the line. And that’s the part “not all men” doesn’t address.
Women aren’t always saying that all men harass, but what we are saying is that a lot of good, polite men end up protecting the system where harassment feels low risk.
I understand why men resist this framing, but doing nothing is not the same as doing no harm, when the environment itself is what enables thr harm. The least you guys can do for women is to SPEAK UP.
It’s the same thing going on with this raping festival, some men wouldn’t participate but they wouldn’t stop the men that are participating.
But since they’re not part of the majority, they think they’re the “good” ones, when all they’re doing is protecting the system that keeps failing women.
The performative rage for the rape festival will die by tomorrow till another one happens and trends. We are a people driven by sensationalism. We don't have deep values and convictions that keep us consistent in our stand against injustice! A sad and sorry story!
"Imagine it's your daughter or sister..."
Please, if you know you cannot understand the gravity of the situation without someone having to frame it within your own circle, get out from my front. Conditional empathy una.