Maturity is realising that what works for A may not work for B, no matter how hard you try to copy it. Some marriages suffer because people keep using another couple’s relationship as the standard for their own. Build what works for both of you. Marriage is not a competition.
I nearly made a financial mistake today.
Thesis A- Deposit and lock 300,000 on Opay for a promised 16%. Take not of the percentage. This percentage will return 310,600 after 90 days. A profit of 10,600 naira only.
Thesis B- Borrow the same amount from Opay at a discounted amount of 12.6%. After 90 days you will have to pay over 411,000. An additional 111k on interest.
Why is the interest for both party having such a high margin?
I would have involved @FinPlanKaluAja1 to help me understand this math because this one Don pass construction cost adviser.
I do not need to consult my wife to give my siblings money.
She won't even be aware of any financial transaction between my siblings and me; I'm not spending her money.
I'm spending MY HARD-EARNED MONEY!!!!!!