My opinion? That’s true for a lot of people, but I don’t think love after 25 is about giving up sparks or butterflies. It’s about realizing that chemistry alone isn’t enough.
The butterflies are nice, but can they communicate? Can they be consistent? Can they support you when life gets hard?
As you get older, you start valuing peace, emotional maturity, trust, and shared goals because you’ve learned that excitement without stability often comes with unnecessary stress. The ideal relationship isn’t choosing between sparks and stability—it’s finding someone who gives you both.
Love after 25 is different. You’re not looking for sparks. You’re looking for stability, kindness and shared goals. You’ve outgrown games and butterflies. You’re craving peace, emotional safety, and someone whose future aligns with yours.
It’s not you people’s fault, it’s because it’s being talked about here, you think anybody will come and ask for your opinion or permission before they remove a fetus with DS? Lol.
You that will complain to your child’s teacher if his seat is next to a kid with DS in class, you that won’t invite the kid with DS to your child’s birthday party so they don’t make your guests uncomfortable, you that’ll get irritated in a fast food restaurant or church if a kid with DS walks in with their parent and they sit next to you, it is here you can be grandstanding and posturing.
People are deadbeating able bodied kids easily, it is now special needs kids they won’t deadbeat?
Be yarning dust there because no be you gaz face the struggle of dealing with the ability to care (emotionally, financially), the concerns about the child’s quality of life, the bullying and social exclusion in an intolerant and discriminatory environment, long term family impacts and future of the kid if anything happens to the primary caregivers. Online lo wa.
What exactly is wrong with people who become friends with others because of material possessions.
Now you’re all on TikTok spilling your secrets.
If you start a friendship based solely on materialism & not character, it will eventually fall apart like a house of cards🤷♀️.
You are not woman enough for giving your husband only female children.
Imagine what you will be called for having special needs children, actually they will disappear🤭.
People that run away from the hospital because it's a girl again for the third time.
😂 Please dfkm..
“May God send you a man.”
May He send me financial abundance, enlarge my territory, bless the work of my hands, and make me fruitful in every area of my life. 😭
Every prayer is “man, man, man.”
Please, I want divine favor, generational wealth, good health, peace of mind, career breakthroughs, answered prayers, and supernatural opportunities . 😭🙏🏽
Many of you want great relationships but all you want to do is take.
There’s nothing great that comes out of always taking. Even friendships but you want life long partners while being a leach.
If you like stay online and let people deceive you that you are some sort of prize that no one can get tired of.
Bro, if you want a career woman, go for one.
If you want a full-time housewife, marry one.
But don’t choose a woman who isn’t your type and then waste precious time comparing her to others.