Interested in switching to Tech (cloud and data analysis). Happy to connect with other tech enthusiasts. Catholic & Igbo. I love Anime and Cartoons very much 😂
The only thing a man has ever taught me is this:
Always do what’s best for you.
Because at the end of the day, a man is going to do what’s best for himself every single time.
they sucked all of the sickle cell blood out of my body and filled me with AA blood and lowk I feel like crying a bit… like there’s no way this is how yall actually feel on a regular my body feels so lithe and supple… i can breathe… it didn’t hurt much when i stand omgggg 🥺😭
Once you leave your house and walk into an office building, 2 things should be true:
Your ego, completely planted outside of that building.
Nothing, absolutely nothing, is personal. Thrive on facts and win on them.
1. A woman you are talking to asking you for any form of financial assistance within the first month is a red flag. Cut her off.
2. Actually get to know women first before getting sexually involved with them. There are women you must not sleep with, no matter how attractive they are. Getting to know them is how you know this.
3. A woman who cannot transport herself to the date location on a first date is not God’s plan for you. This is 2026.
4. Leave low-effort women alone. Any woman who is not as invested in you as you are in her is not interested in you. Lack of effort = lack of interest. Stop forcing ball.
5. Never ask a woman what she brings to the table. This is one of the reasons you should get to know her. When you do, you’ll know exactly what she brings to the table. Outrightly asking that question shows a lack of emotional intelligence.
6. Never split bills with a woman if you are the one who offered to take her out on a date, especially if you are from this demographic. Whoever initiated the date should plan and pay for it.
7. Any woman who asks you to pay for her hair, makeup, and dress in order for her to come and see you sees you as a fóol. Cut her off.
8. When you are on a date with a woman, you should sit facing the entrance of the restaurant, lounge, or wherever you are. It is a safety and security protocol, and as a man, it is your responsibility to protect both of you on that date.
9. Don’t ask a woman about her body count. It is not a relevant question. She’ll lie to you anyway. If you care that much about it, talk with her long enough and you’ll get the information from her. Women tell on themselves a lot. You just have to listen, be a safe space, and put two and two together.
10. Do not allow anybody to date you out of pity. Pity love is the worst form of love to settle for. She must be excited and enthusiastic to be with you, just as much as you want to be with her. No one is doing you a favor by dating you.
11. Communicate your boundaries very early, and if they cross them, walk away. It shows a lack of respect. There are things you must not tolerate from anyone as a man.
12. Form a habit of hosting and cooking for your date. Once in a while, invite the person you are dating or seeing over, cook what you know best, set the tone, and enjoy each other’s company. This makes you an interesting person.
13. You deserve only the love and treatment you give first, and you accept the love and treatment you think you deserve. What this means is, lead first. Gift her, love her in her love language, but if she’s not reciprocating, walk away. Women gift and treat the men they like with care. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.