A Random Retail Manager

I manage a small smoke shop. Critter, geek, constantly learning. I am not a girl.

[A Random Retail Manager @Iamthatbean2]

I only lost 3 followers today, and gained 6. Apparently, I have created a trans safe here. Perfect!

If you are still here and still anti-trans, please find the door

Anyhow, for the new folks, Hi. Em, he/they, 41, trans-masc. D&D nerd, critter, vape salesman, overall nerd. 1/2

[A Random Retail Manager @Iamthatbean2]

@lynnemthomas Thinking of you, today and every day.

[A Random Retail Manager @Iamthatbean2]

@michaeldthomas @lynnemthomas Kraft och omtanke.

Strength and consideration.

[A Random Retail Manager @Iamthatbean2]

@JustinDGentry Captain Planet, telephones, Care Bears, Cabbage Patch Kids, clothes from the store, disposable diapers... I could go on and on.

[A Random Retail Manager @Iamthatbean2]

@michaeldthomas Love and hugs!

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@michaeldthomas Kraft och omtanke to you all. Strength and determination. So much love.

[A Random Retail Manager @Iamthatbean2]

@HellYeahSadie I'm planning to watch tomorrow. Might take me a bit to get through it.

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@realdocv I had a therapist fire me for trauma dumping and being "unwilling" to "move past" my abusive childhood. She also stated, in our final session, that if I did let myself move past it, that she believed I could "recover" from being trans and ace.

[Housing 4 All is Hot @ahouse4all]

No matter how many times you throw away an unhoused person's tent - they still can't afford the rent.

[A Random Retail Manager @Iamthatbean2]

@acweyand I bled for 10 months straight. Blood counts low enough that I needed transfusions. Was told it was normal. Switched practices to a female doctor. Found out I had cancer.

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@RRR0BYN @BadMedicalTakes I had 2 "physiological" births in hospitals. My 2nd, barely even got into the hospital. With my 3rd, we both nearly died and I ended up having a fully unmedicated C-section. If I were to have another (not possible), I would have a birth with all the interventions.

[A Random Retail Manager @Iamthatbean2]

@funder Always and forever.

[Ari Drennen @AriDrennen]

Libs of TikTok creator Chaya Raichik is 28 years old.

[A Random Retail Manager @Iamthatbean2]

@CC_at_YCTAC @BadMedicalTakes I think they mean red raspberry leaf. It is sold as an herbal supplement and used for uterine toning during pregnancy and menstrual difficulties.

[A Random Retail Manager @Iamthatbean2]

@ellemarie79 @barcelomidnight @bitchcrafters @fairheartstring @ask_aubry My now EX husband asked me if I could wait until after church to go to the hospital. My first child was born in under 3hrs. This one (my 2nd) was less than an hour. I had not even fully checked in at the hospital. I had M at 8:38am, discharged at 5pm, at church at 7pm.

[A Random Retail Manager @Iamthatbean2]

@BadMedicalTakes I'm a transgender man. Those "we can always tell" folks regularly say things like "you'll never be a real woman" to me, lol. Kinda the point, my dude, but go on.

[A Random Retail Manager @Iamthatbean2]

@storyjunkie Emory. 41. Ftm. Ohio. Currently exhausted, lol.

[👸🏽💓Mother Strawberry Sativa Pharmaceutica🍓🏥 @Mae_DayJ]

Sharing this again in hopes I can actually get food tomorrow , since unexpected bills ate up all the money that was donated before I could get groceries 🥺

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Venmo: @Maelee-Johnson

https://t.co/NpowEAsX20

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#EmergencyCrowdfund

[A Random Retail Manager @Iamthatbean2]

@Mae_DayJ @maelee Sent you a little something. Sharing now.

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4. The belly binder. I can't bind my chest right now and the belly binder pushes my chest up and makes them look larger and more pronounced. I have to wear this thing for several weeks...

More tomorrow. I can't type any more tonight. 5/?

[A Random Retail Manager @Iamthatbean2]

What do I wish I, a trans masc person, knew going into a hysterectomy that no one told me?

I ended up discussing trans health care and just bitching about the hoops I had to jump through in my previous thread. In this one, I will hopefully just give you some insights. 1/?

[A Random Retail Manager @Iamthatbean2]

3. I felt unprepared with how exhausted I would be. I find myself sleeping at random intervals throughout my day. Anything I do, even mundane things, is enough to require at least an hour on the couch. 4/?