@GiaMMacool@privateeyeruss Surveys of men’s and women’s fantasies have trended higher for both male and female having an experience outside of the relationship there’s a cultural shift impacted this, what is it?
@StrongMarriage5 Recent study(I believe Harvard) points to a frequent quality sex life results in a massively increased happier relationship- marriages that have lots of good sex are better and more fulfilled you want to have a better marriage have a better sex life - fixed it for you 👍
Sex begins as something celebrated. It is anticipated, pursued, prioritized, and enjoyed. Early in a relationship, people move heaven and earth to find the time and privacy for it. They think about it throughout the day. They reach for each other in the morning and again at night. They negotiate, plan, invent opportunities, and treat physical connection as something worth protecting at nearly any cost. Not because they were instructed to, but because every instinct in them understood, without being told, that this particular kind of closeness was precious.
Then life begins to layer in.
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@StrongMarriage5 Western feminized culture has placed so much emphasis on women prioritizing themselves men are shamed into feeling fortunate if they are Top 3 in her universe 1- kids 2-self 3-career maybe if you’re lucky 4- husband
@StrongMarriage5 Dig into the scientific studies including The Great Sex Rescue Study and Frankenbach(most cited) the methodology isn’t quite peer review level stuff the numbers are closer to 19-20% - regardless Christian couples should be banging to the higher drive
@marriedmn The loss of pair bonding capacity is criminally understated and underestimated - the projection of high body count mindset onto virgin or low BC is high level cognitive dissonance