@sigourneybeaver 2/2 Mum came back into my thoughts a few months later and I could grieve for her properly. After a while it felt like.she was telling me it was OK now and they were together again. That's how I like to think of them now. Hang in there.
@sigourneybeaver 1/2 I didn't grieve properly for my mum because I had to look after my dad. That was a of the hardest years of my life. Exhausting both physically and emotionally. When dad eventually passed, I was a mess for months (we were close).