One of the most potent teachings that I have is:
"Do not look for a spouse in a church, find a church in your spouse".
That's exactly what my wife & I did.
And that's why I am here today to teach you what many of you don't know.
I have been proven right almost always.
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I want to correct a misconception.
A woman saying that "I married my husband" is wrong.
A woman does not marry a man.
Only a man marries a woman.
"I married my husband" ❌
"I got married to my husband" ✅
"I got married to my wife" ❌
"I married my wife" ✅
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A religious person will not eat your sallah ram and rice, or your Christmas rice and chicken.
If you give them, they'll secretly throw it away.
But if you give them money, they'll not throw it away.
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Go and check divorce court records.
Where the reason for divorce is infidelity, more men initiated the divorce.
Where the reason for divorce is lack of finance or DV, more women initiated the divorce.
Marriages where the women have not been caught in infidelity & where the men are providing more, last much longer than marriages where the opposite occurs.
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So men let me repeat.
Please if you continue to notice that your wife is constantly trying to catch you in infidelity, always wanting to snoop on your phones, questions your whereabouts unprovoked.
Start your discreet investigations, you may discover gold.
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🚨 José Mourinho on Mikel Arteta winning the league with Arsenal:
“That could be Manchester United—but only if they understand one thing: patience. Look at Arteta: two or three seasons without winning, finishing second, yet the club and the fans continued to support him. They believed in the same project and gave it time to grow.
At United, it’s different. You start building something, but before the structure is ready, everything changes. A new manager, new ideas, new players… over and over again.
Success doesn’t come from constant change—it comes from stability, trust, and giving a project the time it needs to succeed.”