I mean Fela was losing to Tina Turner before Wizkid made this post. Why didn’t you, @RealSeunKuti, use your influence as the custodian of his legacy to ensure your father won? The same Wizkid you dragged with a ring light for 7 days mobilised his fanbase to make sure Fela didn’t lose. Again, Wizkid has done more to preserve and promote Fela’s legacy than you his son.
I have been married for over half of that of Pastor Enenche, and I have been with my wife for close to 27 years now. I will tell you that this advise is wrong, you should not heed to it.
As a married couple, all the income that comes into the family, from both the man and his wife belongs to the family. Nothing belongs to them separately except what they have both agreed on.
If you cannot work as a team, then please stay single and don't be entangled with someone else. You can be single and enjoy your salary/wealth as you choose but the moment you are married, everything belongs to the family
Don't let these ego-driven suggestions lead you to an early grave.
if you don’t love talking to them, don’t marry them.
you need that burning, almost childish urge to tell them about the strange dog at the bus stop, how you almost tripped at the corner, or just to laugh about how terrible the breakfast was.
because life eventually gets enormously boring, and the right person makes even the mundane moments worth sharing.
I really don’t know how the year was for you all, but if you can, make out time to spend quality moments in fasting and prayer, either today or on the 1st of January, 2026.
Life moves fast, and the year may have come with victories, lessons, losses, or unanswered questions. Regardless of how it went, taking time to withdraw from noise and distractions to seek God brings clarity, strength, and direction. Fasting and prayer are not just religious routines; they are moments of alignment where you reflect, give thanks, ask for mercy where needed, and commit the coming year into God’s hands.
As a new year begins, it’s important to start it with humility and intention, acknowledging that plans alone are not enough. When you pray, you invite wisdom, peace and guidance into every step ahead. If you can, make it a priority. What you gain spiritually can shape the entire year. 👏
What I require in a wife
1. You must prioritize our home over your work.
2. Present for the kids: I don’t need a full-time career woman. I need a woman who is available and devoted to raising our children properly.
3. Traditional by choice: Work if you truly want to, but I strongly prefer and will support a full-time homemaker and mother.
4. If you work, you’re home by 7 PM latest. No late nights at the office. Family time is sacred.
5. No violence; You don’t hit me; I will never hit you.
6. You cook my meals, not a maid. I’m not outsourcing my wife’s role.
7. Choose your circle wisely: Limit close female friends, especially single mothers or those with chaotic lifestyles.
8. No feminists: I want zero tolerance for modern feminist ideology in my home or marriage.
9. I lead, spiritually and practically; I’m your head on earth, not your pastor, not your father, not a suggestion box.
10. No 50/50 nonsense: I am the primary provider. You support where you can and I can always rely on you for help and support.
11. If you choose to be a full-time homemaker: I will pay you a generous monthly allowance, not because I can “afford” your service, but because I value and appreciate the irreplaceable role you play. Your work is priceless.
12. Respect is mandatory.
No matter how rich you are individually as a Nigerian, we are all collectively poor. Very poor.
You only realize this during emergencies. A fire breaks out and there is no fire service. An accident happens and there is no first aid, no ambulance, no system.
Today, a world boxing champion like Anthony Joshua was involved in a car accident and not a single ambulance showed up. Someone that rich and globally known. People only gathered around him like it was a carnival. No safety measures. No trained response. Just chaos.
An accident that claimed two lives o!
Last month, an aide to a sitting governor was stabbed at a political event.. Somebody lifted him on his shoulder ! Such a gory sight!
Still no ambulance
Not even for a governor’s aide.
That is real poverty.
In Nigeria, money does not save you in a crisis. Influence does not protect you. When it matters most, everyone is poor.
To the rich and influential Nigerian who thinks demanding a better country is for the poor masses, one day you will understand. In an emergency, you are just as poor as the rest of us.
Nigeria is poor.
Poor poor.
RIP to the dead and wishing Anthony Joshua quick recovery.
Whoever sold the gospel of marriage to Nigerai women did them a great disservice. And the person is long gone, otherwise, an apology would have been necessary, to please come and take his/her gospel back.
Sometimes, when you hear the unspeakable things some women endure just to remain married, and your sanity instantly rebel against it. You find yourself wondering how staying married became more important than dignity, safety, peace, and selfhood. The things some women tolerate in the name of “keeping a home” are beyond comprehension.
There are moments I am genuinely grateful I am not a woman, because I cannot imagine subjecting myself to such humiliation, pain, and emotional violence just to keep any man. No relationship should demand the erasure of one’s humanity as proof of commitment.
This will not be a long thread 🧵
So you can read if you have the time.
Someone who says the day MJ, popsy or momcy dies I won't feel anything! Who am I??? I choose out! I choose myself over that RIP you desperately wish me
I have been my own pillar ever since I became an adult
I supported my family to the latter while I single and doing well
I have helped sponsored my younger siblings through pri. Sec. & Uni level.
I am not lazy either am I a fully dependent human. As matter of fact, I'm the one
The beginning of a miserable and frustrating life.... This lane!!!! I've seen it all.. mental abuse? Physical abuse? Emotional abuse? & more LOL all these for WHAT???
You refused to bring my drugs to me for WHAT??? looking for excuses to back up your wicked acts..? After all an
We are calling on @PoliceNG to Launch a nationwide man hunt for Victor Ogbuja and in the event he goes abroad he should be extradited back to Nigeria to face the Law because information reaching us is that he ran away as soon as the news started trending again. #JusticeForOchanya