Unfortunately, sometimes you have to be a little mean to make people realize you're not someone to be played with. Not everyone respects kindness, but they will respect boundaries.
Men be like ;
Oh you’re posting yourself? You must be Ashawo.
You don’t want to sleep with me? You must be Ashawo.
You want to sleep with me? too easy, you must be Ashawo.
You want my money? You must be Ashawo.
You have your own money? You must be Ashawo.
You’re single? You must be Ashawo.
You’re dating ? You must be Ashawo.
Una no get another insult? Every eke market day 🤣