Na where I dey since morning o..
My elder brother's wife was due to give birth and he's not in town at the moment, I had to go stand in for him..
Omo I don tire..
We thank God sha.
An inspiring story of a Nigerian mom thriving abroad. 🇳🇬❤️
She's raising a 9-month-old, building her business as a hairstylist in Berlin, and earning from years of hard work and consistency.
“There is no bigger enabler than the entertainment industry. This is where d£mons live. Entertainment is totally orchestrated and created to extol the virtues of S@tanism. Nothing in the industry glorifies God” — Actor Jim Iyke
"With the way this government is going, I may not even be alive to contest the 2027 election. Every single thing I do for a living, this government is deliberately frustrating. I face frustration every day. They recently locked my car at the airport."
—NDC presidential candidate, Mr. Peter Obi
I was raised in the North & while there, I often saw a lot of vegetables being moved to the East and I used to think that the East's soil isn't good for growing these foods(a lie). Fast forward to now, this dependency is still there, and we are bent on eradicating it for Alaigbo
ICE detain mother holding U.S. citizen daughter—force her to decide about family separation.
Agents refuse to allow her to call the father to come and get the young girl.
Force her to either abandon daughter and leave her alone on sidewalk—or be detained by ICE along with her.
Mother and daughter are then ordered into an unmarked truck and taken away.
The incident occurred in Houston, Texas.
Man filming promised to try and contact the father—to tell him where his family disappeared to.
He doesn't have an account on this platform—so posting first full length and credited video here to help raise awareness.
Dr Aproko being chronically online and knowing how social media works, especially X, I’m surprised he made that statement.
Some things are better left unsaid, doing my sis dirty like that.🙄
I know a number of people who didn’t marry their “spec” but are in the healthiest marriages I know. Their spec was typically whatever was culturally deemed to be at the apex of the attractiveness pyramid when they were growing up. For a lot of guys in my generation, it was the music video “vixens” from the late 90s/early 2000s Hip & R&B music videos with ‘coke bottle figures’ and or light skinned eurocentric features. When it’s time to find a partner for the very serious endeavor of sharing a life with, that “spec” is simply inadequate as a measure of compatibility and that’s understandable. The foolishness though is communicating it as though their partner somehow didn’t measure up to their “spec” instead of simply admitting that the idea of their spec was stupid all along and a young boy’s lack of wisdom of what makes a good life partner.
Communicating publicly or even privately to your partner that they weren’t your spec to begin with may seem harmless, after-all you’re just being honest. But subconsciously, it’s an ego trip for you who “settled” and for your the partner, it’s a chip they will always carry on their shoulder that to you, they aren’t quite enough. They’re missing something you had always longed for, so much so that you still consider it to be your “spec”. It’s an unnecessary mind fuck and a cruel thing to say about somebody who is sharing a life with you. No matter how flowery you are with the compliments that come after. You’ve already knocked them down several pegs.
If the point is to say your spec changed then talk about the stupidity of having a spec to begin with. Because I’ve never heard anyone in these situations talk about character attributes being their spec, it’s always superficial stuff. Or speak about how meeting your partner opened your eyes to what true beauty is. Speak in ways that elevate and affirm your partner.
I know a number of people who didn’t marry their “spec” but are in the healthiest marriages I know. Their spec was typically whatever was culturally deemed to be at the apex of the attractiveness pyramid when they were growing up. For a lot of guys in my generation, it was the music video “vixens” from the late 90s/early 2000s Hip & R&B music videos with ‘coke bottle figures’ and or light skinned eurocentric features. When it’s time to find a partner for the very serious endeavor of sharing a life with, that “spec” is simply inadequate as a measure of compatibility and that’s understandable. The foolishness though is communicating it as though their partner somehow didn’t measure up to their “spec” instead of simply admitting that the idea of their spec was stupid all along and a young boy’s lack of wisdom of what makes a good life partner.
Communicating publicly or even privately to your partner that they weren’t your spec to begin with may seem harmless, after-all you’re just being honest. But subconsciously, it’s an ego trip for you who “settled” and for your the partner, it’s a chip they will always carry on their shoulder that to you, they aren’t quite enough. They’re missing something you had always longed for, so much so that you still consider it to be your “spec”. It’s an unnecessary mind fuck and a cruel thing to say about somebody who is sharing a life with you. No matter how flowery you are with the compliments that come after. You’ve already knocked them down several pegs.
If the point is to say your spec changed then talk about the stupidity of having a spec to begin with. Because I’ve never heard anyone in these situations talk about character attributes being their spec, it’s always superficial stuff. Or speak about how meeting your partner opened your eyes to what true beauty is. Speak in ways that elevate and affirm your partner.