I think they should take chromebooks out of classrooms entirely because they’re glorified tablets. Bring back having computer lab as a class so they know how to save documents to their computer and include typing lessons as well
A woman once said her marriage was perfect for five years. No fights, no issues, everyone admired them.
Then she got a well-paying job, nothing changed at home, except her.
She started asking questions. Saying “I don’t like this.” Having opinions she never voiced before.
That’s when the “problems” in the marriage began.
Her husband said, “You’ve changed”, and she replied, “No. I’m just no longer the woman who was afraid to lose you.”
And that’s what self-awareness and emotional growth can look like in a relationship.
Adult friendships honestly require GRACE. People are actually very busy. People are HEALING. People are GROWING. People are taking time for SELF CARE just like you. Less communication isn't less love. Check in and don't check out.
My favorite part of resurrection is when they went back and didn’t find Jesus where they left him!! Don’t let NOBODY find you where they left you. Elevate! He got up! You can too! Nothing is too hard for my God!
Unfortunately, I am a girl who takes words to heart ! So yes, I remember every little thing you said & it stuck with me, whether it was good or bad !
Black women earning degrees is forever a flex and I’m tired of people acting like it’s not. It was once ILLEGAL for us to read. Every graduation is a form of resistance.
I have a co-worker who never announces anything. You don’t know she applied for a promotion until she’s already in the new office. You don’t realize she bought her own place until she casually mentions “heading home to finish painting.” She doesn’t post milestones. Doesn’t crowdsource opinions. Doesn’t invite commentary.
I used to think she was secretive. That success was supposed to be shared loudly. That excitement needed an audience.
Now I see it differently.
She moves with intention. Quiet. Focused. Certain. Her plans are protected while they’re still fragile. Her joy isn’t diluted by outside noise. She lets things grow roots before she shows the world the bloom.
It isn’t secrecy. It’s discernment. It’s peace. It’s self-trust.
Sometimes the strongest people are the ones who build their lives softly, without applause, and let their results speak when they’re ready.
The internet constantly tells women that men are terrible listeners because the second a woman starts venting about her day, the man immediately interrupts to offer a logical solution. We are taught to view this as him being dismissive, emotionally unintelligent, or invalidating our feelings.
The strict, unpopular truth is that to a man, fixing the problem is his absolute highest, most desperate form of empathy.
Women vent to connect; we want our partner to just sit in the dark with us and validate the emotion. But men are hardwired to view the woman they love being in distress as an active threat. When he immediately offers a spreadsheet, a strategy, or a solution to your problem, he isn't trying to silence you. His brain has recognized that something in the world is hurting his partner, and his immediate, visceral instinct is to assassinate the thing causing you pain.
We constantly shame men for "not just listening," completely ignoring the fact that his attempt to fix your life is his most profound declaration of love.
This is what happens when you aren’t banking on your child star child to take you out of poverty and you genuinely care about them beyond being a source of income
so many women stay in the wrong relationships because truth is... they don't actually date. they just... jump. Into the attention.. The good mornings. The late night talks. The butterflies. And before they know it... they’re attached. Not because he's right. But because they never asked: “Can I live with his habits?” “How does he handle anger?” “Can I wake up next to him every day for the rest of my life?” “Am I settling for comfort instead of love?” They don't observe.. They just attach. And that's why so many of them stay stuck. Not because he's right..... But because walking away.. feels heavier than staying. So please... slow down. Talk. Observe. Take your time. Because falling is easy. But healing after leaving? That... is the hardest part.
A therapist, once said: “You loved him because love is in you. You had fun because you are fun. You felt happy because you are a happy person. You gave your all because that is who you are. You have a really beautiful way of loving, and you are going to be okay.”
Don’t know who need to hear that ✨