Opting into a romantic situation where you have to constantly negotiate with yourself snd teach yourself how to tolerate and swallow discomfort and turn yourself into an ego-less master of peace and zen just to get through the day?
Lol why?
This is how I feel about bringing a child into this world. I refuse to have a baby with someone who doesn’t care enough to be HEAVILY INVOLVED. Changing diapers. Late nights/early mornings. A woman shouldn’t have to do that alone…
the older I get and see other peoples marriages play out the more I realise as a straight woman you have to marry a man who is obsessed with you, like truly deeply loves and obsessed with you otherwise it’s actually not worth it..
Healing from something traumatic is such an ongoing, complex process. You can feel at peace for months and then wake up one day triggered by the smallest things. When does it end!?
You can literally feel it in your soul when it's TIME. time to move on from people, time to make a change in your life, time to get rid of unhealthy habits, time to want MORE for yourself. At some point, you'll just KNOW. That's your call.
The narcissist isolates you covertly. They’ll never directly tell you to cut off your friends or family. It might sound like, “She’s jealous of you,” or “They don’t get you like I do,” or “Your friend gives me weird vibes.” And then one day, poof! It’s just you and them!
as a mom, showing your daughter what it looks like to leave a situation that isn’t working for you is one of the most important gifts you can give her.