A lot of people will suffer if they fail, he should throw away his fantasy of being a great guy and just hope to become a person that can at least protect the person next to him.
Don't put so much pressure with your healing. Even when your journey doesn't look like what you expect it to be, you're on your way to finding yourself and you'll get there soon. It doesn't have to be perfect. Let it go.
I’ve learned that you can’t change people, you can’t make them who you want them to be. They are who they are, you either have to accept it or find what you want elsewhere. If a person does change their ways it’s because they want to and it’s their decision.
It really hurts when you let go of someone and it’s completely okay for them to lose you. If they really love you , no reason will ever be enough for them to let you go.
I know it’s hard. It still is. There will be times where you’ll feel like you’re not enough, like you don’t matter. But you’ve been enough and you matter. You always do. If you start to look back, you’ll see years of trying and surviving even though you never thought you could.
When it gets hard and you feel like giving up, remind yourself why you're there and why you're pushing yourself so hard. Maybe looking back can remind you of your purpose. Maybe this is it. Maybe this is what you have to go through to be where you're meant to.