Tidak ada yang menyakitimu kecuali pikiranmu, tidak ada yang membatasimu kecuali itu ketakutanmu, tidak ada yang mengendalikanmu kecuali itu keyakinanmu.
Tidak ada yang memperhatikan kesedihanmu atau rasa sakitmu. Tetapi semua orang memperhatikan kesalahanmu
The adulting phase hits hard noh? Not just because of love life but also because of responsibilities and disappointments. We all have silent battles that we won't discuss. So, a gentle reminder to everyone going through adulting phases to be a little kind with your working self.
We wasn’t born cruel. We were raised in survival mode. So we learned to stay alert, stay guarded, and stand between pain and the only person he had left. We learn to read rooms, anticipate danger, and protect before anyone asks.
Stop explaining yourself to people who benefit from misunderstanding you.
The more you talk, the more they use your words against you. Self-respect is silence where there used to be over-explaining, and distance where there used to be overgiving.
Stop explaining yourself to people who benefit from misunderstanding you.
The more you talk, the more they use your words against you. Self-respect is silence where there used to be over-explaining, and distance where there used to be overgiving.
There’s nothing left to discuss if I have to explain why your actions were inconsiderate. Basic respect shouldn’t require a presentation. If you can’t recognize how your behavior affects others, the conversation isn’t the issue, the mindset is.✍️
Orang dengan kemampuan analisis tinggi emang biasanya lebih cepet nangkep inkonsistensi, manipulasi, alasan muter2, logika yang lemah. Makanya mereka cenderung lebih direct + gampang frustrasi sama hal yang dianggap ga masuk akal.
Tapi orang cerdas ≠ bicara tajam.
Pernah nggak sih lo ketemu orang super nyebelin tapi lo coba kasih benefit of the doubt "oh maybe this person is just misunderstood" terus lambat laun lo ikutan sebel (jauh lebih sebel daripada orang lain) dan setelah kroscek lebih lanjut, lo cuma bisa bergumam, "oalah pantes"
Pernah nggak sih lo ketemu orang super nyebelin tapi lo coba kasih benefit of the doubt "oh maybe this person is just misunderstood" terus lambat laun lo ikutan sebel (jauh lebih sebel daripada orang lain) dan setelah kroscek lebih lanjut, lo cuma bisa bergumam, "oalah pantes"
30+ version gw
-Surrender Resistance
-Declutter Your Life and Mind
-Self-Acceptance
-Trust as an Investment
-Set Firm Boundaries
-Refocus on Your Goals
-Change Your Energy