@MissEmiraNoir I’m talking about arab female subs who are already into bdsm. You’ll find 99% of those are into spanking etc. but almost none into falaka! Why?
@MissEmiraNoir If you compare the amount of arab females who are into ass spanking to the ones who are into falaka, it’s like 100:1 !! .. I can’t find why 🙂
@MissEmiraNoir Finally folks, it would be great to return to address my question about the difficulty of finding female subs who are interested in falaka! .. you started addressing it then it was cut off 🙂
@MissEmiraNoir Folks, we are NOT comparing vanilla to bdsm. We are comparing “bdsm kink” to “bdsm fetish”. This is tbe source of all confusions that are exchanged here!
@MissEmiraNoir In my view and various readings, what draws the line between “normal” and “disorder” is respecting limits, understanding risks and playing safe.
@MissEmiraNoir And btw, psychology is not enough to handle such topics since it could see anything in the bdsm world to be out of norm and such, defined as “disorder”.
@MissEmiraNoir Hey folks, please read out my previous comment detailing out the main difference between Kink & Fetish. It’s the most important differentiation & it’s derived from credible sources in the bdsm world.
@MissEmiraNoir Fetish: the bdsm activity (example: spanking) is necessary in order to have sex.
Kink: bdsm activity IS SEX. It substitutes sex & gives you the same satisfaction of sex without having to have sex.
Both are Ok. Nothing is illness.
@MissEmiraNoir Thank you Emira for posting my question! .. I’d say that falaka is a very rare thing to find female subs to participate in. But no one is able to tell the reason why?