My best friend fell for a broke guy once. They were discussing patriarchy and dahej topic came up.
The guy said his parents expect ~10 lakh and a car(they didn’t have it). My bff said she’s not a hindu & there’s no dowry system in their culture.
So the guy replied- “ TERA BAAP GAREEB HAI isliye tujhe aisa sikhaya hai ki dahej nahi hai culture me”
She said “tera baap itna ameer hai toh naaley me kyu rehta hai tera family?”(he lived in some slum like area in Delhi) and broke up with him😂😂😂
Broke guys are broke for a reason,never waste a second on them
Just got exposed for my role in the coverup of a major scandal and had to resign in disgrace. My legacy and political future are completely tarnished. I’ll forever be remembered as a crook. Pineapple with cottage cheese and warm milk.
Facts. We had:
- a recorded confession
- his DNA on my body
- his statement I was unconscious and therefore couldn't consent on tape
- his statement we "had sex" 🤢
- his admitting of putting my underwear back on (when I woke up and balked) on tape
- my memory of the rape itself
- his coworker's sworn confirmation he'd said to the coworker from jail "I had sex w her"
- his later denial anything happened to the police and conflicting stories
- refusal to give his DNA when asked
- refusal to take a polygraph
- airtight testimony from me
A prosecutor said it was one of the strongest cases she'd ever seen and SF's DA THREW IT OUT after PRETRIAL after 9.5 years of making me wait.
I absolutely hate how every time a woman complains about being harassed, she has to mention what she was wearing.
As if she's not wearing appropriate clothes as per you she deserves to be harassed.
me and my friends completed a trip to uttarakhand and it’s something i wish i didn’t have to remember
we were at the bus stand heading to catch the metro
there was a guy in a car, all in formal wear, who started driving parallel to us. my friend noticed he was jerking off and following us
we got really scared. the place already felt off, and then this man, around 35, in formal clothing, doing that while driving alongside us
i don’t want this incident to take away from the trip because it was beautiful. we tried to take a turn but it led to a dead end, and the station was around 800 meters away, so we kept moving. we panicked and started sprinting. even when we saw a policeman, he was still just 30 meters away, continuing to follow us. we ran towards the policeman
and then he disappeared
all i’m saying is
men in general can be pathetic, not all. it doesn’t depend on where they come from, this guy probably worked in corporate, might have had some education
but if your beliefs and values are shit, you cannot be changed
and it ruins everything, the trauma
and it was morning
read a comment saying you come from western education and they don’t, it’s their land and their values
is this their value, to jerk anywhere???
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polluted, hottest, worst place to live economically, no proper health care, rapist/corrupt politicians, highest number of unemployed youth, poor air quality, water scarcity, crumbling infrastructure, traffic chaos, rising cost of living, weak public systems, lack of accountability, overcrowding, noise pollution, declining green cover, increasing inequality, adulteration in food, no law and order for the rich, ethanol in vehicles pushing car culture, burning slums, poor waste management, lack of public transport planning, power cuts, unsafe roads, weak civic sense
can you guess the country ???
“But women sexualise themselves”… no, men sexualise our existence.
There’s a fetish for the schoolgirl, the teacher, the secretary, the nurse, the nun, the “innocent” girl, the “experienced” woman, the boss, the assistant, the submissive, the dominant, the “barely legal,” the mother, the babysitter, the neighbour, the coworker every version of us gets turned into something sexual.
Covered? There’s a fetish. Modest? There’s a fetish. Uncovered? There’s a fetish. Even discomfort, even vulnerability is sexualised.
The same woman will be sexualised and then shamed for it in the next breath. That contradiction isn’t ours to carry.
Saying women sexualise themselves is just a way to dodge accountability because no matter what we do, you were already going to sexualise us anyway.