one of the main reasons i’m so gentle with myself is cause i believe i’ve already experienced enough hardship in my life. i’ve already been mishandled and undervalued by others and myself at times. so i deserve more patience, forgiveness, and consideration at this point.
‘Marry your daughter to a man who fears Allah; he will be kind if he loves her and will not oppress her when he is angry with her. ‘
[Kitaab Uyoon Al Akhbar 3/308]
Ages 25–30 are really tough. You’re dealing with a shrinking friend group,aging parents,fixing the financial mistakes from ur early 20s,your career and your health. You’ve gotta find time to heal your mind. You just have to.
A good spouse is one of Allah’s greatest blessings. Someone with good character, kindness and faith can bring peace, happiness and barakah into your life. May Allah bless us with righteous companions who help us grow in faith and bring us closer to Him.
No job?? Pray Tahajjud..
You're in stress?? Pray Tahajjud.
You want something?? Pray Tahajjud.
You're suffering from illness ?? Pray Tahajjud.
You wanna get married?? Pray Tahajjud.
Wallahi Tahajjud will literally change your life, SubhanAllah
Allah is planning for you better than you plan for yourself. Allah knows you find it hard to accept what's going on. He knows that you are in need of comfort. He knows what is bothering you these days. Don’t give up on your Dua's. Soon He will give you what you want In Sha Allah.