Flynn

Still catching myself thinking everyone else has the answer

[Flynn @IntegrityAvenue]

I'm usually so fixated on getting all the things done in my limited time.

I defer the things I want to do until I've done what I need to do — until I don't have enough time to do what I want since I put off what I need.

But I found myself enjoying just sitting here thinking. Massaging my sore shoulder and entertaining myself with my thoughts. Letting my mind wander and solve puzzles I'm facing —passively instead of forcefully.

Right now, there's nothing I'd rather be doing instead. I found this rare moment where I don't have my phone calling to me.

I usually notice this on holiday. But it's the weekend

[Flynn @IntegrityAvenue]

@ysuckme Maybe it really dies if you believe them

[Flynn @IntegrityAvenue]

@JesseCadeWrites Often when I need a new perspective

[Flynn @IntegrityAvenue]

@Bluebirdeyessss Turns out it’s just a series of problems to solve. The small ones stack to solve the main one

[Flynn @IntegrityAvenue]

@blakeaburge That advice really changed something

[Flynn @IntegrityAvenue]

@dimvji Happy for you!

[Flynn @IntegrityAvenue]

@NoahKingJr Fuck grammar lol

[Flynn @IntegrityAvenue]

@itsme_urstruly That’s also what I like about social media like X

[Flynn @IntegrityAvenue]

@moriah_bridges Maybe that’ll work on ourselves too. It’s pretty hard to change your identity but I think it can be done.

I’ve only just started letting go of the ‘shy’ and ‘smart’ identity I was given and it’s driven more progress in 6 months than the last 5 years

[Flynn @IntegrityAvenue]

@hellspatisserie Sounds like a great way of explaining how you can start taking your life into your own hands. I find that creates a positive feedback loop — controlling what I can control

[Flynn @IntegrityAvenue]

@MelNicoleLove That’s a great reminder. Glad you’re taking care of yourself and hope you’re sharing the load

[Flynn @IntegrityAvenue]

@aubreystrobel I usually give that answer when I don’t want to share what my hobbies are, even though I very much have an interest in the world

[Flynn @IntegrityAvenue]

@_lowkeyalfred It seems kinda hard to be proud of doing things if doing them is not only for yourself

[Flynn @IntegrityAvenue]

@real1800splurge That negative loop is kinda like a side quest that can show you what the main quest is

[Flynn @IntegrityAvenue]

@Nithya_Shrii Being bad at hobbies is basically a requirement. I think most of the fun comes from improving at them

[Flynn @IntegrityAvenue]

@Elevating360 Yes — I was literally the person who always suspected a different environment was the answer.

But the surprising part is how the environment can stay the same while you change

[Flynn @IntegrityAvenue]

@Elevating360 I try to notice whether I’m actually moving downwards or life is just passing by me

[Flynn @IntegrityAvenue]

@libriscent I thought that kept me improving. But I find it holds me back way more than I gave it credit for

[Flynn @IntegrityAvenue]

@libriscent That’s exactly what put me off wanting to lead and keep me stuck feeling like an imposter

[Flynn @IntegrityAvenue]

@Zoey168102 Maybe it is normal and you just haven’t figured out how to do it yet. It what I always wanted anyway

[Flynn @IntegrityAvenue]

@Fimiye That’s kinda the best feeling tho