@ChrisExcel102 Peace, loyalty and respect is of great importance to every men who seek a sustainable relationship,I guess the nigga opted for peace over vawulence.
The older you get, the more you choose calmness over drama and distance over disrespect. You prioritize your peace, mental health, and happiness — over everything.
@Dineo_thulii That’s how it goes
It’s always: “we experience different people, y’all don’t know him like I do, he is different with me”
Until the money stops coming in
And then: “I’m tired of being quiet, it’s by the grace of God that I’m still alive, I was manipulated”
@Dineo_thulii I know, the stories we often hear are horrible but this is the world we’ve created: “whoever has the gold, makes the rules”, so a LOT of women are okay playing by those fiendish rules as long as they get paid, that’s why we only hear about the abuse after the guy stops paying
A secret you should know is that you can be your ideal self now, you simply need to start acting like them; embody their characteristics, reframe your thoughts to think like them, act as if they would, enforce their boundaries and standards — be your ideal self now.
“If you are asking if I need you,
the answer is forever.
If you are asking if I will leave you,
the answer is never.
If you are asking what I value,
the answer is you.
If you are asking if I love you,
the answer is I do
@MindTendencies2 There will be times in your life when you have to choose between being loved and being respected. Always pick being respected, that love without respect is always fleeting" but that respect could grow into real, lasting love.
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Unconditional love without boundaries is self-destruction. Just because you love them doesn't mean you should accept disrespect and be treated like a doormat. You gotta train your no to be stronger than your empathy. The bigger your heart is, the stronger the boundaries you need.
Relationships are so beautiful when you and your partner are actually good friends. You show up together, share inside jokes, talk openly, have fun, and totally vibe like besties. They shouldn’t replace your actual friends but it’s so amazing when the dynamic isn't just romantic.
If you do not test yourself all the time, you will not be able to distinguish between reality and fancy. Observation and close reasoning help to some extent, but reality is paradoxical.
As an ‘I am’ you are the river, flowing between the banks of the body. But you are also the source and the ocean and the clouds in the sky. Wherever there is life and consciousness, you are. Smaller than the smallest, bigger than the biggest, you are, while all else appears.