"No matter what his reasons were " ?
Well.. don't get me wrong but why you watch drama if you expect green flag ppl? ..coz green flag people have no space for development ..
He was 18 years old from a dysfunctional family where he had the same value as houseplants and was supposed to become a doctor no matter what. He was clearly abused physically as well, even if we haven't seen it yet...
Now the best part is that , It took him 15 years to break his generational toxic cycle to reach the goal he really wanted in this life... This is highly realistic, because when you are abused, you don't break that cycle in just a 1-2 years .. โBreaking a generational cycle isn't like flipping a light switch... when you grow up in an environment where your only worth is tied to what you can achieve, where you are treated like an object, your survival mechanism is almost turned off ..
It takes so much courage to say your very first "NO" to something you don't want.. I feel like he probably even started medical school and only than began breaking the cycle when he was maybe over 20... I'm sure his family doesn't even talk to him and has disowned him as a son, but yeah let's compare two traumatized ppl ?
HIs behavior wasn't right , more like ut was annoying ,but it doesn't make him the villain people are making him out to be. Comparing two different traumas is also wrong, because you and I can react to the exact same abuse differently. It might affect you but not me, because there is no standard way for people to process trauma.. Thatโs why it's complicated process coz healing isn't linear function and not same for everyone out there ..
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