i saw a girl on tiktok who said "accountability is so important to me. nobody's perfect, but don't try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match" and i felt this to the core.
Anytime you decide to play with somebody in any type of way, Remember this: You don't get to choose how, when, or where they play back & Everybody ain’t gone play fair, so make sure you ready to stand on everything you did!
i don't know who needs to hear this but in order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you. you cannot grow if you keep pretending you’re innocent in the story you created